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Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

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Remember ChuckTheFuckleBrothers?

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IveBeenADick · 31/12/2014 10:59

Well it turns out you were all right.

I am utterly destroyed & in need of some hand-holding - can I come back please?

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InfinitySeven · 31/12/2014 11:03

One of the amazing things about MN is that everyone is always welcome back (bar liars, trolls, etc).

Do you want to talk about what happened?

Twinklestein · 31/12/2014 11:04

Sure

AuntieStella · 31/12/2014 11:05

Yes, I remember.

Things were quite volatile and changeable IIRC. Do you want to post about what's happened over the last few weeks?

GoatsDoRoam · 31/12/2014 11:06

Yes I do.

How are you now?

IveBeenADick · 31/12/2014 11:09

I am in bits. I honestly don't know how I'm going to get through this. I promise not to call anyone c**ts this time!

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GoatsDoRoam · 31/12/2014 11:10

whatever happened, you will get through it.

Do you want to tell us more?

IveBeenADick · 31/12/2014 11:18

I will, yeah. Not drip feeding just trying to get dressed & not cry in front of DS. Can't think, can't make a decision, it just hurts.

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Humansatnav · 31/12/2014 11:23

When your ready sweetheart.

woowoo22 · 31/12/2014 13:56

and UMN hugs for you.

maras2 · 31/12/2014 14:00

Not the first nor the last.You poor woman. and from me to you.

Ohfourfoxache · 31/12/2014 15:07

Enormous un-MNetty

What happened sweetheart? X

AnyFucker · 31/12/2014 15:14

I remember you

Welcome back. Have a nice

Dowser · 31/12/2014 15:45

Course you can.

Sorry to see you back. What's happened with Lord Willy Metal?

SunshineBossaNova · 31/12/2014 16:08

Welcome back OP. and hugs.

IveBeenADick · 31/12/2014 16:30

Lord Willy Metal! If I could muster a lol I would, cheers.

There was more of the same head fuckery until (after 3 weeks off my happy pills) I'd had enough. My head's so scrambled I can't remember what happened in what order. There was the time when I said 'you don't like me very much, do you?' & he made a big show of 'I can't deal with this' & flounced off, saying it was over. And the time that he said his ex had him arrested (for drugs offences) because he told her about me & she wasn't happy. Which of course meant it was over. And then when he was here last, I complained that he was ignoring me (he was messing about on his laptop - for ages). Rather than apologising & putting it away he had a rant about not being able to relax around me - so he couldn't be with me anymore. It was late, so he stayed the night - I said he could sleep upstairs (yeah, I know!). We had some pretty amazing sex (the one thing he is remarkably good at). The next day I had a very strong suspicion that there's still something going on between them (from things he let slip - and they spent Xmas day together with their kids - after the arrest drama?? Something doesn't add up). I tried asking him while he was here & got totally stonewalled. Got into a text convo about it & guess what?? It's over.

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IveBeenADick · 31/12/2014 16:35

Reading it back, that post makes me look like the loon doesn't it?

I went back on the happy pills two days ago & I am a mess of side-effects & irrationality. I've been texting him esp in the early hrs when I can't sleep. I've contacted via a social network site (not FB) - I can't bear the thought that I've been sleeping with someone else's partner & want to tell her. But more than anything, I want him to come back & tell me that it's all ok, I was being paranoid & he loves me. Pathetic isn't it?

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IveBeenADick · 31/12/2014 16:36

Should read 'contacted his ex/partner'

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IveBeenADick · 31/12/2014 16:38

And to top it all off, there's a possibility I could be pregnant. I really have been a dick, haven't I?

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Only1scoop · 31/12/2014 16:42

I remember your debarcle....

He likes super skinny women and has a piercing down below??

IveBeenADick · 31/12/2014 16:43

I haven't eaten, haven't slept, can't stop crying - over a three month relationship, what the hell is wrong with me?? But we have spent the whole time in contact, every day, from first thing in the morning to last thing at night. I miss him so much already.

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IveBeenADick · 31/12/2014 16:44

OneScoop - yes, that's the one.

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IveBeenADick · 31/12/2014 16:46

And even now I'm thinking 'I haven't eaten for ages so if he changes his mind by the weekend my hip bones will be sticking out nicely...' I know it's mental but I can't stop. I feel like an addict.

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Teeb · 31/12/2014 16:47

When is the pregnancy scare from? Would it show up on a test yet?

IveBeenADick · 31/12/2014 16:48

No, not yet Teeb, my period isn't due til the 11th. Hopefully it'll be fine, it's not like I'm a teenager.

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McSqueezy · 31/12/2014 16:49

Sounds like you need some professional help.

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