Hi everyone I think I've posted about this before in the past but I've got no friends and it really gets me down.
Yes I get on well with people at work but don't have loads in common to the extent that we would hang out outside of work.
The socialising I do is pretty much all as a couple with DP and his friends who are all married and their wives.
DP however has good friends he sees on their own without their wives.
My two best friends both moved away, one to Australia and one to Canada. We email, whatsapp etc but it sucks. The one in Australia fell out with me about 8 months ago over a stupid miscommunication and has replaced me with new shiny Australian bimbo best friend.
I'm almost 30 and all the women I know are either just married and having first or second babies or they are working all hours climbing the corporate ladder so none of them have time to hang out more than once or twice a year. I miss having close female friendships so much.
DP is encouraging me to socialise independently as well but I just can't get the "momentum" with people IYKWIM.
I have a 9 yo who sees her dad regularly & I have a job with okay hours now and have a decent amount of spare time but don't know where to start. Doesn't help I live in London where everyone is spread out so far away they might as well be in a totally different city. Plus people cancel plans all the time and it sucks.
Is this normal? How do you maintain close female friendships around this age? How do you make new ones if you've lost yours? It's so hard! Feel like people have established their close friendships years ago and can't be arsed or don't need more? I don't just want friendly acquaintances. WWYD?
I tried one of those meetup groups btw and it was awful
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