Have posted previously when still on relationship and don't have time to write down full story right now, just after some advice please?
He was made to leave the house in November (solicitors letter). Since then he's been texting and calling A LOT. We have a dc together and my DS from a prev relationship and he's using seeing them as a way to be here/ keep contacting me
He keeps saying how much he loves me, he's so sorry for being a twat, won't drink 'heavily' any more, promising holidays etc etc. even that we should get married and have another child.
He thinks that because he's no longer an abusivr drunk, everything is fine and I should forgive him and move on.
But the thing is I DID love him dearly. But since being on my own my feelings have changed and now he mainly just irritates the hell out of me. Every now and again I feel fondness for him (and I still fancy him ).
He knows I'll struggle to pay the mortgage and bills alone in our (50/50) house and I can't buy him out...
I don't want things to turn nasty, want him to have a good relationship with DS. He's meant to look after him when I go back to work in 2 weeks for 2 days a week...
How can I find him off without him getting the hump and making things difficult with the house and baby???
I'm waiting for a mediation session, should be in January this year..
Oh, and he asked me to stop the child maintenance claim I had started because they were hassling him at work and it was 'embarrassing'. I stupidly agreed
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How to handle EA ex dp (child and house together)
MistletoeBUTNOwine · 29/12/2014 09:33
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