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Natalie12341 Sat 27-Dec-14 16:40:44

Am 25 weeks pregnant and I split with my boyfriend 12 days ago. And am a complete mess. Am struggling to eat some days I feel ok then bang am a complete mess. He says he will support me. But everytime I message him he never replys which makes me feel even worse.. We planned a lovely Christmas together so Christmas was quite hard for me.. I have an 8 year old son from a previous r/ship he hasn't really picked up on anything. But am just really struggling. He never texts or rings to ask how I am how can someone that loved me just totally blank me. Never have I felt pain like it. It's affecting my blood pressure and I feel like am always wanting to no what he's doing ect I feel like I will crack up if I carry on.,. It's making me depressed and I just don't no what to do please help ����

Heyho111 Sat 27-Dec-14 16:59:18

You poor thing. You feel so hurt, rejected and scared. It's going to take time. Do you have family or friends you can go to for a hug.

Natalie12341 Sat 27-Dec-14 17:17:38

I am staying with my mam at the minute. Since all this has happened. I honest fault this was just a little hiccup. Because this has happened before I was pregnant. I just don't understand how he can love me then say he doesn't love me and in such a muddle. And I could do with a hug but my mam thinks am on the mend. As I've been hiding my true feelings away from everyone. ;(

Justwanttomoveon Sat 27-Dec-14 18:25:23

No wonder your feeling so low, on top of dealing with a breakup, you've got pregnancy hormones to deal with too. Please tell your mam how your feeling, I'm sure she will want to support you and give you a hug.
Really sorry if this upsets you but you are going to have to assume you are doing this without your exes help. Gather as much support as you can in rl and keep posting on here, I'm sure someone else will come along and give you wiser words than me. But for now (((hugs))) flowers

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