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Anyone around? DP being a Christmas twat.

(72 Posts)
Stepzsaz Wed 24-Dec-14 18:26:43

So basically he's had a drink.
I gave my lads a bottle of Christmas j2O each as it's Christmas Eve (we have 4). Dp kicks off saying two of them were meant for his kids who come on Boxing Day. I say that his youngest wouldn't want it (as he well knows) and his eldest drinks beer (of which we have loads in). He carries on acting all depressed saying i said 2 bottles were for his kids??!! I even said I'll go to shop Boxing Day to buy more but he carried it on anyway.

Now, I've been promising my son I'd watch a movie with him before Christmas Day. I put this movie on today knowing it would be finished by 6pm. As it finished I went to see dp (who had refused to watch the film and instead wanted to play on battlefield) asking if he'd be joining me in the living room anytime soon as it was Christmas Eve and I'd like his company to which he replied "oh? Didn't realise you'd been dumped? I want to play battlefield anyway, after that I might come and sit with you".

Ffs same old story, he's bitter and twisted that I live with my kids and he doesn't. Christmas Eve and he wants an argument.

JeanSeberg Wed 24-Dec-14 18:28:06

Do your kids a favour and dump him.

rootypigsinblankets Wed 24-Dec-14 18:29:39

He sounds utterly wretched. What on earth do you see in him?

Coffeethrowtrampbitch Wed 24-Dec-14 18:30:05

Yes, I'd be tempted to say if I'm dumped he should get off Battlefield and find somewhere else to live asap.

What a childish idiot, all over two bottles of juice!

RandomMess Wed 24-Dec-14 18:32:04

Yep dump him, he's a Grinch and life is too short.

Patrickstarxx Wed 24-Dec-14 18:32:45

He's a Thundercunt. Get rid.

HamPortCourt Wed 24-Dec-14 18:34:53

LTB - I am sure 2015 will be much better without him.

Excellent use of the word "Thundercunt" patrick

R4roger Wed 24-Dec-14 18:35:45

no wonder he is sad not to see his kids. give him a break

NoDecentNamesLeft Wed 24-Dec-14 18:36:20

Kick him to the kerb while he is still a DP and not a DH when it would be too late.

hissingcat Wed 24-Dec-14 18:46:47

He sounds awful and very childish. how long have you been together/lived together?

Stepzsaz Wed 24-Dec-14 18:47:06

His kids will b visiting Boxing Day. I tried to make them a stocking and he offered no help at all ... In the end he actually told me not to bother doing one got his kids. Now it's a big injustice that my kids have one and his don't.
He told me he didn't mind me putting on a movie for DS ... Now he's saying "oh you want me now that the movie has finished? Well I'm busy now ... " like the childish twat he is. He's bitter, twisted and doing what he can to ensure that I don't enjoy Christmas with my kids because I'm to feel guilty about EVERYTHING

GilbertBlytheWouldGiftIt Wed 24-Dec-14 18:48:10

Why don't you just fuck him off? I know, I know... But what does he bring to your life?

R4roger Wed 24-Dec-14 18:51:28

ignore him.

AnyFuckerForAMincePie Wed 24-Dec-14 18:52:13

So, next Christmas you could swerve all this crap by kicking him the fuck into touch

Will you do that, or have a little moan and carry on accepting second class citizen status ?

ouryve Wed 24-Dec-14 18:53:46

He's behaving like a 12 year old.

Dump him. Hard.

Stepzsaz Wed 24-Dec-14 18:59:37

This is our 3rd Christmas together. 1st year he was on best behaviour. 2nd year was the first year we spent as a 'family' so he was putting on this pretence, this year he's just been awful. Every time I show him a cheapy present I've bought (like £5 socks) he sneers at it. To him Christmas doesn't start until his late teen kids arrive on Boxing Day which I can kind of understand but to shit on the Christmas of the woman you're meant to love? Nah.

AnyFuckerForAMincePie Wed 24-Dec-14 19:02:25

Is it worth putting yourself through a 4th ?

I don't think so

GilbertBlytheWouldGiftIt Wed 24-Dec-14 19:02:32

Nope, no excuse. He sounds very emotionally immature.

gatewalker Wed 24-Dec-14 19:04:26

Tie a big bow round his arse and kick him out the front door. That's your present, and you're returning it.

Stepzsaz Wed 24-Dec-14 19:05:51

Update ... He's just had a go at me because I looked in the oven and mentioned that the pork might be ready (but didn't mention his Yorkshire puddings).

R4roger Wed 24-Dec-14 19:05:55

anythign else going on your life?

Allingoodfaith Wed 24-Dec-14 19:06:52

anyfucker got there first!

Seriously do your kids a favour and fuck this tit off. What a horrible bitter man. Hates his life so hates you and yours. Nice.

Stepzsaz Wed 24-Dec-14 19:07:29

I noticed he was talking to his son via Facebook, I asked "oh is ok? How is he ?" And he replied "err yes, why wouldn't he be?".

Waste of fucking time.

Galvanized Wed 24-Dec-14 19:09:23

In fact, take the opportunity to ignore him and really enjoy this Christmas safe in the knowledge that you'll be kicking him out once the dust settles. What a lovely weight off your shoulders.

Stepzsaz Wed 24-Dec-14 19:09:39

Nothing else going on in my life other than this constant feeling of bitterness and disappointment from him. This morning he was pissed off that he was at work and I wasn't. It's like he HATES me having anything he doesn't.

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