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Relationships

Eek what do I do

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Js1983 · 21/12/2014 19:58

I really don't know how to play this but here goes....

Ive always liked this guy in work but never was sure he liked me. Always teased me but I've never done anything.

i was on my Xmas works do and after a couple of hrs way he was with me changed. When he went out for a fag after talking to me he kissed me on the head and put his arm round me.

then spent rest of night kissing and cuddling each other. He said he thought I was really cool and how pretty I was yet day after didn't hear anything from him.

i really like him but I don't want to b disappointed

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Cantbelievethisishappening · 21/12/2014 20:04

and after a couple of hrs way he was with me changed.

Alcohol?

Js1983 · 21/12/2014 20:05

I know that but there must b some like there he's been teasing me for months????

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Vivacia · 21/12/2014 20:12

If there was something there it would be there when he was sober too.

Vivacia · 21/12/2014 20:12

I would put it down to a fun evening and move on.

Poseypops · 21/12/2014 20:17

Hold on, what's he like? Is he shy? Perhaps the alcohol gave him courage. If he's like you then he may be wondering the same as you. I think we need a bit more background. Can you txt him?

Js1983 · 21/12/2014 20:20

He likes acting cool and we work beside each other. I work in room full of men he's the only one that commented when i had my hair cut always torments me... He even kissed me on head in front of everyone before he went out for a fag

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LyingWitchInTheWardrobe2726 · 21/12/2014 20:24

Kissing on the head is not passionate, OP. It's the thing you might do with a sibling. He might well be fond of you but, in my book, what you describe is not him fancying you.

Js1983 · 21/12/2014 20:26

So what he do if he was we were hugging and snogging all night

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MadeMan · 21/12/2014 20:27

"Kissing on the head is not passionate, OP. It's the thing you might do with a sibling."

Or a pet.

AllOutOfNaiceHam · 21/12/2014 20:33

Is he usually shy?

antimatter · 21/12/2014 20:36

are you both single?

jl1983 · 21/12/2014 20:38

Yeah both single

MadeMan · 21/12/2014 20:39

"So what he do if he was we were hugging and snogging all night"

Sometimes when you've had a few drinks you just fancy a snog with someone. Then next day all your mates are asking about the woman you spent all night with in the corner.

I'm sure a lot of people have got off with somebody in a club just for the evening; doesn't always have to lead to a ONS, a relationship or anything.

Andcake · 21/12/2014 20:39

Don't do anything could be just booze or something more. Smile be pleasant at work if he does like you he will approach you but he found be worried that you were drunk and want to see your reaction when you see each other in person.
Keep us posted!

jl1983 · 21/12/2014 21:00

But we work together he was cuddly infront of my colleagues as well... The things he said to me that I was the coolest person he's met and that he thought o was amazing u wouldn't just say that to a random

Vivacia · 21/12/2014 21:03

Some people are like that though, it's just flirting.

Perhaps he really fancies you though. Why you don't you text him, say you had a fun last night?

Vivacia · 21/12/2014 21:03

"Coolest" doesn't sound like something you'd say to a prospective girlfriend though.

AskMeAnother · 21/12/2014 21:05

We can't make it work for you! If he wants you, he'll let you know, won't he? He has plenty of opportunities. Smile to yourself, think 'That was pleasant' and move on.

HoHonutty · 21/12/2014 21:06

Are you drunk now?

Vivacia · 21/12/2014 21:06

HoH

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe2726 · 21/12/2014 21:07

Have you namechanged OP?

Nothing you've said makes me think that he fancies you. Snogging on a night out means nothing of note or significance, lots of people do it. He kissed you on the head in front of people... that's a very clear sign of nothing to me. I think you might be reading more into this than exists.

MadeMan · 21/12/2014 21:09

"The things he said to me that I was the coolest person he's met and that he thought o was amazing u wouldn't just say that to a random "

That's true, it's the sort of thing you say to someone when you're a teenager and they let you play Nintendo at their house all day.

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jl1983 · 21/12/2014 21:10

Well what else would he do to say he fancies me as thought teasing was a sign of a guy likes u its lil things like he's only one in work that commented on my hair

jl1983 · 21/12/2014 21:11

He also said I was really beautiful it's not like we jumped into bed

Vivacia · 21/12/2014 21:14

Did he give you his number, ask for yours, and tell you he'd ring you? In my experience (in the dim and distant past) they've sent three texts on the way home and you wake up to one in the morning.

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