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Eek what do I do

(54 Posts)
Js1983 Sun 21-Dec-14 19:58:52

I really don't know how to play this but here goes....

Ive always liked this guy in work but never was sure he liked me. Always teased me but I've never done anything.

i was on my Xmas works do and after a couple of hrs way he was with me changed. When he went out for a fag after talking to me he kissed me on the head and put his arm round me.

then spent rest of night kissing and cuddling each other. He said he thought I was really cool and how pretty I was yet day after didn't hear anything from him.

i really like him but I don't want to b disappointed

Cantbelievethisishappening Sun 21-Dec-14 20:04:48

and after a couple of hrs way he was with me changed.

Alcohol?

Js1983 Sun 21-Dec-14 20:05:59

I know that but there must b some like there he's been teasing me for months����

Vivacia Sun 21-Dec-14 20:12:14

If there was something there it would be there when he was sober too.

Vivacia Sun 21-Dec-14 20:12:49

I would put it down to a fun evening and move on.

Poseypops Sun 21-Dec-14 20:17:09

Hold on, what's he like? Is he shy? Perhaps the alcohol gave him courage. If he's like you then he may be wondering the same as you. I think we need a bit more background. Can you txt him?

Js1983 Sun 21-Dec-14 20:20:09

He likes acting cool and we work beside each other. I work in room full of men he's the only one that commented when i had my hair cut always torments me... He even kissed me on head in front of everyone before he went out for a fag

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe Sun 21-Dec-14 20:24:58

Kissing on the head is not passionate, OP. It's the thing you might do with a sibling. He might well be fond of you but, in my book, what you describe is not him fancying you.

Js1983 Sun 21-Dec-14 20:26:45

So what he do if he was we were hugging and snogging all night

MadeMan Sun 21-Dec-14 20:27:23

"Kissing on the head is not passionate, OP. It's the thing you might do with a sibling."

Or a pet.

AllOutOfNaiceHam Sun 21-Dec-14 20:33:21

Is he usually shy?

antimatter Sun 21-Dec-14 20:36:17

are you both single?

jl1983 Sun 21-Dec-14 20:38:31

Yeah both single

MadeMan Sun 21-Dec-14 20:39:37

"So what he do if he was we were hugging and snogging all night"

Sometimes when you've had a few drinks you just fancy a snog with someone. Then next day all your mates are asking about the woman you spent all night with in the corner.

I'm sure a lot of people have got off with somebody in a club just for the evening; doesn't always have to lead to a ONS, a relationship or anything.

Andcake Sun 21-Dec-14 20:39:58

Don't do anything could be just booze or something more. Smile be pleasant at work if he does like you he will approach you but he found be worried that you were drunk and want to see your reaction when you see each other in person.
Keep us posted!

jl1983 Sun 21-Dec-14 21:00:04

But we work together he was cuddly infront of my colleagues as well... The things he said to me that I was the coolest person he's met and that he thought o was amazing u wouldn't just say that to a random

Vivacia Sun 21-Dec-14 21:03:13

Some people are like that though, it's just flirting.

Perhaps he really fancies you though. Why you don't you text him, say you had a fun last night?

Vivacia Sun 21-Dec-14 21:03:55

"Coolest" doesn't sound like something you'd say to a prospective girlfriend though.

AskMeAnother Sun 21-Dec-14 21:05:14

We can't make it work for you! If he wants you, he'll let you know, won't he? He has plenty of opportunities. Smile to yourself, think 'That was pleasant' and move on.

HoHonutty Sun 21-Dec-14 21:06:20

Are you drunk now?

Vivacia Sun 21-Dec-14 21:06:53

smile HoH

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe Sun 21-Dec-14 21:07:46

Have you namechanged OP?

Nothing you've said makes me think that he fancies you. Snogging on a night out means nothing of note or significance, lots of people do it. He kissed you on the head in front of people... that's a very clear sign of nothing to me. I think you might be reading more into this than exists.

MadeMan Sun 21-Dec-14 21:09:51

"The things he said to me that I was the coolest person he's met and that he thought o was amazing u wouldn't just say that to a random "

That's true, it's the sort of thing you say to someone when you're a teenager and they let you play Nintendo at their house all day.

jl1983 Sun 21-Dec-14 21:10:54

Well what else would he do to say he fancies me as thought teasing was a sign of a guy likes u its lil things like he's only one in work that commented on my hair

jl1983 Sun 21-Dec-14 21:11:49

He also said I was really beautiful it's not like we jumped into bed

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