It was quite a casual thing and knew it wasn’t really going anywhere but I did/do really like him. He called it off a few months ago and i’ve got drunk with him a few times since then and offered him to come home with me/fwb setup and he’s said it’s not a good idea and gone home alone. I know he’s right and fwb would be a really bad idea but I was drunk and he’s part of my big friendship group so I still see him occasionally.
Last night we had a big christmas meal/night out there were 20 of us and we did secret santa, he text me today and told me my present was from him and that I shouldn’t open it in front of my family so i’ve just opened it and it’s lingerie, actually nice lingerie way over the secret santa budget.
I don’t get what he’s thinking, he doesn’t want me back (he knows he could have me and doesn’t want me) so why would he give me this when we’re not together?
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Mixed messages - Ex dumped me, doesn’t want me anymore but bought me lingerie
howinterestingyousay · 20/12/2014 19:08
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