which he didn't tell me about at the time.
I found the documents relating to this property along with those of a property I do know he bought (which he was open about) a few months ago, but when I asked him outright if he had bought this shop, he said that he had been planning to but had pulled out. Stupidly I chose to believe him .
Fast forward a few months and I gather from his movements that he has recently started using the premises. The penny dropped because of how defensive he was about where he was going today, obviously trying to hide what was in the boot of the car (which he was bringing there), and then an outright lie he told at the dinner table tonight. He also got very defensive when I asked him for some details telling me to "stop it" and "occupy myself with something else".
So the penny finally dropped. Those documents were real and he has started using the premises. He also lied the other day when I think he was there setting up (he was gone for hours), telling me he was somewhere else when I rang. Except that I could hear a loud radio in the background and the place he was talking (lying) about is a very quiet yoga school.
So then it took the easiest detective work imaginable to confirm what I thought. I found a business rates document at the top of his pile of paperwork left out . I also did a search on the land registry and sure enough the property does belong to him .
I have started a thread about this on AIBU but I don't think I worded it right. I really wanted, if possible, someone's opinion this evening as I have just found out and am a bit shell shocked.
There is stuff about me that h does not know either, but somehow I think his is worse . I can go into my stuff too but I really wanted an opinion on the above before I divulge what is going to take ages to write down.
Bottom line we obviously don't trust each other at all, but being lied to directly like that (and several times) is .
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Have this evening found out that h has been lied to me about an investment property which he has bought
whatnow2 · 20/12/2014 00:41
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