I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and 4 months now and last month I found on his iPad numerous chats with other girls about 20 months ago. The content was shocking and it's ruined my trust in him. I confronted him and he put it down to virtual attention seeking. I was going to end it and he was absolutely distraught and given the duration we've spent together, I thought I could forget about it but over the past week it's been playing over and over and I can't look at him the same. I don't think he's ever took it further but how can I believe that now? I love him but how can I ever trust him again? I never had any indication that he was like this and despite it being so long ago, the pain so fresh to me in what was otherwise a fantastic relationship. I can't look at him the same now I feel. Can I get over this?
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Can't get over finding out he was talking to girls online
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Coleen1988 · 17/12/2014 21:13
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