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Falling for her?

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Tree2859 Wed 17-Dec-14 19:28:26

So ive recently last couple of months started seeing my friend from school again we were friends at secondary school and when I moved kept in touch every now and then I'd go visit all as friends this was years ago when I first moved from 15 to now at 21 recently I've been seeing her more she has a child who's two when I visit well go eat or order food and chill and have the odd cuddle what I casually start and it's brilliant I'm trying not too admit it that I love her and I try to say I wouldn't because she has a child which I always said I wouldn't date a woman with kids but honest to god I love her child too, and seeing her with her melts my heart she's brilliant I've seen her be with men just because they were nice and there and I thiugh what if I was there well hoped it would of been me and now I am there I darent make a move and lose her well sleep together in her bed and sometimes get a bit close but not cuddle although ID love to! How do I know what to do if I should we never buy era other present this year she bought me a Christmas present with just little thoughtful buts which I really appreciated she jokingly says I Should move in as she's genuinely happy when I'm there and half of me wants to say yes when! advice?

Mouthfulofquiz Wed 17-Dec-14 19:38:04

I think you need to be brave and have a conversation... You could both be really nervous but someone needs to make the first move!! Good luck smile

Tree2859 Wed 17-Dec-14 19:39:53

Is there anything like that should shiw me if she want me too?

EhricJinglingHisBallsOnHigh Wed 17-Dec-14 19:43:17

Ok, it's bad form to point it out but I'm going to, you need sentences. That is almost impossible to read.
Advice - she's using you as a pseudo boyfriend without any of the commitment. Plus if you aren't even cuddling I'm afraid to say I don't think she's attracted to you.
However, I could be completely wrong, you need to ask her out. And stop sleeping in her bed, that's just weird.

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