I'm so sad. I thought that such a long time after he used to stalk me here he'd have given up, but no. He is stalking me here again and last night somehow got into my FB account and changed my password so I am now without FB for 24 hours whilst they "monitor" my account from a security perspective. This also means I can't play scrabble which is my down time me time between being a single mum to three, a full time job, looking after lodgers etc. The scrabble is such a trivial little thing but has made me so cross! I am shaking my head in disbelief.
He's my ex. We are divorced. He lives in his own place. We (I?) do have some attraction that keeps drawing us (me?) sort of back together, but now he has done this and it feels like nowhere is safe anymore. I have to give up any form of online support.
I went through utter hell in my relationship and break up from him. Feels like I will never be free, that I cannot ever confide in anyone again.
I just needed to vent. Maybe for someone to say that I am blowing things out of proportion, that he is my EX, that it doesn't matter because he is not part of my life anymore (apart from ongoing access with our DS).
But this isn't normal is it? To track down your ex wife and hunt out her posts here, and to then hack into her FB account? And today he says he loves me so much, that we will be back together.
I'm so tired. Life is so busy and I have no one to talk to in RL. So here, and a few private groups on FB were my only retreat. And it feels now like it's all gone.
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Stalking me here....and hacked into my FB account
wavesandsmiles · 15/12/2014 19:49
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