Am regular but NC for this
Today I was speaking to my sister, she is 41 weeks pg and was complaining about it all (as you do when your overdue)
Whilst she was complaining she said 'I don't know why I went ahead with this pregnancy, I only got pregnant because you were' I have a 5 mo DD and she is single and unemployed, she told us all she got pregnant as her contraceptive failed. But obviously that is all her business and not mine!
She then admitted she came off the pill as when I announced I was pg every one was so exited, me and DM would go shopping together and everyone was exited for the first DGC. She said she felt pushed out with all of the attention on me and so deliberately set out to get pregnant so people would lavish her with attention and the focus would go back to her.
The baby's father is not around, she said he was a one night stand and does not plan on telling him as she also told him she was on the pill in order to get pregnant.
I have paid for her deposit on a flat to move to, given her all of my old stuff (Moses basket, bouncer, clothes ect) as well as buying a lot for her son, she has not bought anything. I did this as I thought it was an accident and didn't want her to feel pressured into an abortion due to feeling she could not afford a baby, little did i know hay.
I don't know how to feel now , I left and have not spoken to her since, I am miffed, I feel lied too and I feel like she is the most selfish person in the world, and her motives for this baby are all wrong. I will love my niece no matter what but I feel like the trust is gone with my sister.. I don't know how she could do that, bring a child into the world with no money/father/ stability all because She wanted some attention.
AIBU (and I know this is not AIBU but I'm sad and don't want a flaming) in not wanting to speak to my sister and thinking she is selfish and ridiculous for doing this.
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My sister has just told me she is having a baby for attention
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Confusedandshockedd · 15/12/2014 14:25
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