Name changed!
Basically I'm very unhappy and want out of my relationship! I don't love him and things have been going wrong for long time!
Unplanned pregnancy which he didn't want, was very nasty about but now baby is here he loves dearly!
I'm scared to end it incase he takes it to court to get access, I just don't trust him alone with baby, he drinks, drink drives, and already caused a avoidable accident when baby was 5 weeks old that resulted in bump to head and overnight stay in hospital!
I'm purely still with him so he can see baby under my supervision!
He is not on the birth cert though is pushing for this! I'm currently thinking about sticking it out while I get proof of his drinking etc, try to get him caught drink driving, go seek professional advice after Xmas!
How can I make sure if it goes to court he will never get proper weekend access, I just can't allow my baby to be put in a car with him and taken off 40 miles away, I would never forgive myself if I knowingly put her in danger. Any access he gets needs to be here, at my house!
I just don't know what to do, do I just suck it up for the sake of my baby? He is only ever hear weekends anyway!
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To scared to end it! Incase he gets access to baby
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Namechangeragain1234 · 15/12/2014 10:33
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