My hubby has sustained cos he has found a spot where my ds has peed on his sofa I have dealt with all nappies and potty training and most of the care of my kids he has become annoyed cos my ds has speed on the sofa aibu to tell him to suck it up?
Hubby? Assuming you are married/live together, he should suck it up (not literally). If he doesn't live with you and it's not his DC (you said "his" sofa? and "my" ds?)... Well, I myself probably wouldn't be best pleased if somebodies child did a wee on my sofa. I'd expect them to pay to get it properly cleaned if it left a smell/stain.
Yes I've worded it wrong it's our son but he is so bad at dealing with any bodily functions and I've been potty training our son and dealing with a stomach bug I may be in the I'm to tired to cared zone I try to give him the benefit of the doubt but I do feel he is taking. The pics