Have a newborn 1 month old. DH does all the cleaning, cooking and washing. I do all the baby care, EBF, night feeds, nappy changing, winding and comforting.
I haven't left the house yet apart from during the day for 10 min bursts and out to a restaurant with DH for a meal (with baby) a couple of times.
DH works from home so is around all day, but quite preoccupied with work. He sleeps well because he isn't woken in the night. Since the birth DH has been going out for football practice then drinks with friends up to 3-4 times a week. He's never out later than midnight on these occasions but I have whole stretches of time completely alone with the crying baby (up to 12 hours) unable to do very much except sit in front of the TV because hands are tied up holding/comforting etc.
I feel upset about this but I don't know if I am being over emotional. His life basically hasn't changed but mine has dramatically changed. DH is being a housework machine - cooking all my meals (leaving them in fridge when he goes out), washing all clothes, bed sheets, tidying up after me etc. I don't know if I am being ungrateful?
Does it sound fair to you that he is out this much and leaves me alone with a newborn?
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Is DH being unfair?
theruntsnextdoor · 14/12/2014 17:48
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