Hi,
I was with my ex for just over 5 years. I fell pregnant in the last month of out relationship. Although not planned I was excited and felt that we were secure enough to do it. Anyway, I told him over the phone (he worked away, wouldn't have seen him for 3 weeks) he told me he would phone me back, and that was it. I've never seen him since. He moved on, and I got on with life. I cut all contact and went on to have my DS. When he was born I received a lawyers letter requesting a DNA test. Which I conceded to, results obviously showed that DS was his. After that I never heard from him again.
Fast forward a year and a half. I had missed calls last night from a number I didn't recognise. Then some texts. Asking me to meet him, to discuss getting back together (!) I replied to the texts but kept my distance. Told him if he wanted to discuss DS then he would have to contact lawyers. He has text me about 6 or 7 horrible texts since and told me to wait for the lawyers letter.
Is he going to get access to my son? How much? He's never met him, he's never paid a penny for him. Everytime I think of handing my baby boy over for visitation I want to cry. He'll be so confused. I have a partner who I've been with since DS was 6 months old. He looks at him as a father, he doesn't know my ex.
Does anyone know where I stand legally? Have made an appointment to see my lawyer, but she can't see me till next week.
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MrsRaegan · 10/12/2014 22:36
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