My brother has always been 'difficult'. I think he may have a personality disorder or Aspergers traits. He is super intelligent and finds it hard to put up with people not on his level intellectually sometimes I think. He has never held down a relationship for more than three years (in late forties now) and is very vocal about his views and beliefs especially if you dare to express something different. He never thinks he is in the wrong and is not a very tolerant person. He has had anger issues in the past and gets annoyed about things easily. He seems unable to empathise also. He doesn't do small talk and will often deliberately not reply to something someone says if he thinks it is not worthy of an answer. He likes to get his own way and has threatened to disown me as a sister if I don't do what he wants or cause a scene if I don't comply with something. When he does visit I feel I am treading on eggshells with regard to what I say and how I say it. He does appear to have friends but no real close friends I think. His friends seem to come and go frequently!
He can be nice sometimes but his mood can change abruptly. He doesn't always get it when people are joking or pulling his leg and can get annoyed although he understands actual jokes which involve puns or double meanings etc. If he has an argument with someone he can hold a grudge for years. He is very clumsy also and often accidentally breaks things!!
Any ideas what is wrong with him? I find it hard to view him objectively. Any advice is much appreciated.
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Coconut49 · 10/12/2014 22:26
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