I can't quite believe it. After five years and what could have been so good. I largely did my grieving over the relationship last week when a huge disagreement over a situation came to a head and I thought that unless he changed his thinking on the matter, I couldn't let things go on.
He has put me in a terrible position, but my protests were 'whingeing, moaning and complaining'. Gee thanks. I actually think he felt guilty and was deflecting it. If not, well I don't know what that makes him.
He finally asked me what was wrong this evening as things have been civil, but strained, and I told him the way he had treated me and the things he had said had really hurt and upset me and that I'd stuck my neck out to tell him something he didn't want to hear, but which he needed to pay heed to.
Apparently telling him how I feel is badgering him about the situation. I make it all about me and I'm making things intolerable for him.
He's blaming me - I've driven him away and it's all my fault.
This is rubbish btw and I've told him he needs to look at himself and it takes two to mess things up.
But the thing that is really getting to me is that, because of my age, I've wasted time on this relationship because there was also some excuse for not starting a family and now I'm never going to have a child of my own. I feel so empty and I'm scared about how things are going to pan out.
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Itsallovernowtheend · 08/12/2014 00:48
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