I can't even look at my ex-h.
I dislike him so intensely... and realize now that I should have left him a long time before he met someone else and left me (which was two and a half years ago!) But he was my h, we had kids, I thought I loved him... But there was nothing between us, no friendship, nothing.
I am happy on my own and have as little contact with him as possible. On the well-being/mental health front I am fine when I don't have to see him, but when I do (dc's concerts, etc) I "dip" a bit... Dread seeing him, can barely bring myself to look at him, yet alone speak to him. Is this normal?
I don't want to be un-civil for dc's sake - but I loathe him. Is anybody else like this? How do you cope with it?
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KatyLovesKats · 06/12/2014 23:39
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