I hope I can get some advice, this is my first post on MN. I have a DD, nearly 6 and baby due early Jan. My husband works away from home, but his spells away have become longer and at short notice. He has been particularly disinterested in this pregnancy despite trying for so many years and one round of (unsuccessful) ivf. It was a surprise, but the baby was very much wanted. I have recently become suspicious of his relationship with his PA. He is always on the phone to the office even when at home, and he just talks about her too much. I had previously asked him outright if there was something going on which he has, rather predictably, denied. However, he is on his last overseas work trip prior to the birth and I have come across emails which confirm my suspicions. He was also changing the day which he had arranged to come home which alerted me as he was going to miss DD's Xmas play.
I have called him and said that I know he is having an affair which he has now admitted to. What is particularly upsetting is that it started before I got pregnant. He says that he loves me but doesn't feel that I have loved him for some time. This is not the case, I thought we had a strong marriage and I am devastated. He is coming home tomorrow and I just do not know how to deal with this. I'm not sure I even want him at the birth.
Sorry this is so rambling, my heads a mess. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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35 weeks pregnant, husband having affair.
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