in terms of resolving minor disagreements?
dp and I had a disagreement last night (the only topic we ever argue about really) and the reason this particular thing upsets me so much is mainly down to the fact that I don't feel it was properly resolved the last time. or the time before that..and before that..
so, disagreement last night and im fed up, so haven't been speaking to dp. he is acting like everything is normal...kisses, pet name, hugs etc. I have been stand offish, talking about important stuff but not necessarily chatty iyswim.
previously I have just got on with it and brushed it under the carpet, but I don't want to do that anymore.
now dp just avoids any type of confrontation, I genuinely feel that he merely 'survives the shit storm' until it's all blown over but to me that suggests he is not arsed about why im upset about this particular thing or even wants to do anything to change how I feel.
how do you manage with a dp who just won't discuss disagreements in order to clear the air and resolve.
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what to do when only one of you is the 'talker'
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NamesNick · 02/12/2014 19:07
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