Good evening, I'm desperate and in need of someone elses point of view. I'm 35 years old man and I have 2 sons (5 and 3 years old)
I have been married for 10 years.
My marriage "finished" 4 years ago, we live in seperate rooms, eat our own food, dont wear wedding rings, my wife hates me I think and I dont like her much either, but we have 2 kids and I dont want to be part time dad. Once she got fed up and went to Italy for 1 year - I went through agony without the kids :( when she said she's coming back I was just happ to have my kids back full time.
We behave nicely around kids. I take them out on my own so we spend lots of time together. Thing is: I feel dead inside, I feel trapped and stuck, she says that if I leave I wont see my kids, that she will say in court that I had affairs, been bad father etc etc. I'm thinking maybe lets stay together until boys r 16/18 years old? I dont know.....
I cant see such young children dealing with nasty divorce, bitter mother and part time dad.
She's a part time dentist and doesnt earn enough I think to live on her own. Is staying for the kids good idea?
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Staying together for the kids?
BadBadDadDad · 01/12/2014 20:46
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