I have split up from my STBEH and recently started flirting with a man I have known for a little while. We haven't even got to snogging stage yet, but I'm anticipating it will fairly soon. Really have got the hots for him...
However... My long (and often unhappy) marriage was also accompanied by extremely unadventurous basic / Victorian-style sex. Basically very little foreplay followed by missionary position and occasionally me forcibly rolling over and going on top out of sheer frustration. He never got involved in oral sex - said he hated it, ditto hand jobs etc. Orgasms were rare and only ever really controlled by me (on top) not by anything he was doing.
I am now concerned about my lack of sexual experience and nervous about my new man and what to do when the time comes. I could do with some advice and suggestions of sources of info that won't result in my PC getting vast amounts of porn spam from Googling.
Heeeelllllpp!
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Inexperienced at sex - help please?
AlsoaSpaceCadet · 01/12/2014 14:59
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