Hi more of a lurker than a poster and not really sure why I'm posting on here, more I think to clear my head.
I have been with my DH most of my adult life and we have one young child. Before I start, I must say my DH is an amazing man and father and is one of the kindest, most lovely men you could meet.
My issue is that he is unhappy/low pretty much all of the time and whereas before this would affect me, I'm finding myself becoming quite cold about it all.
In the last 18 months we have moved to a new area and he started a new job. I hoped these changes would improve things but they haven't and he remains low. Being honest I am more of a 'appreciate how lucky you are/feel blessed by what life has given me' type of woman so struggle with my tendency to tell him to snap out of it.
I guess my issue is that he does nothing to address it, I have suggested seeing the doctor, counselling (he went twice) but he seems unmotivated to do anything to change things. I cannot live the rest of my.life like this and don't want my child thinking that living life unhappy is a acceptable. Anyone been through anything similar? I love my DH very much and just want him to be happ y.
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Firsttimemum84 · 01/12/2014 07:12
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