In terms of abuse. I'm still struggling to forgive my abuser for derailing my promising career in science. My mental health problems that resulted meant that I couldn't return to my field . Maybe I will in the future but tbh I'd rather I'd never met him... He spoilt my life.
If you have managed to forgive, how did you do it? Do you still interact with that person or are you nc? Stories please. I don't know if forgiveness will be good for me or if acceptance is more achievable.
Also, self forgiveness is tricky. I cannot fathom why I stayed with him and put up with his shit for 5 sodding years! I just don't get it.
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Has anyone managed to forgive someone who has done them serious harm?
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