I've just totally had enough of sil- I posted a while ago under a different name about the accident with my son and then her not taking him to a and e.
It's a week to go till my c section and not only do I not want her looking after my son- she isn't, as was the plan, after I absolutely put my foot down- but I don't want her to visit at the hospital. I don't actually want to see, speak to, or about her ever, ever again.
I have felt like this for a long time, really. She treats me as someone who she needs to stay on the right side of, so that she can see dh and ds, although I've never stopped dh from seeing her, always encouraged him to spend time with her. I find her ridiculously needy on dh and has said things like she doesn't understand why she isn't with someone just like him. I find it weird. She sends my son cards on a fortnightly basis saying how much she loves him. I find it weird and intrusive.
I don't really care if she doesn't like me. I just want the problem of her to go away as dh and I invariably row before she comes to us- we live 2 hours away now so it's unusually an overnight visit, she does nothing to help, she doesn't pack a bag so she uses all my things, talks incessantly and completely ignores health issues I've got to insist I do things for her.... Agh I just can't stand her. Then we row once she leaves as I can't believe how fucking awful she is and I'm fuming from being put out and irritated to the point of internally screaming. The rows we had after the bridge incident we're absolutely epic. He just wouldn't have a word said against her. He is irrationally sad I think, that she doesn't have her own family and is not fulfilled. This gap is being filled with my family life and I can't stand it.
Help. How should I go about this.
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had enough of sil- the one who didbt see ds fall off the bridge
moshwuckler · 30/11/2014 19:38
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