Basically I have ended the relationship with my dp of 8 years (2x dc aged under 5). I have been trying to work at the relationship/ had trouble for the past few years and he hasn't taken me seriously. Its ended up with me resenting and falling out of love with him. I still care for him and respect him and we are living together while we sort out a financial settlement/ so I can buy a place and move out and we will share the kids 50/50 (both work F/t)
Anyway when I ended it he was devastated/ begs and pleaded and now he is really trying- I tell him its in vain as its just beyond that for me but he says he needs to try. It is really difficult to see him like this - any tips? I have tried to encourage him to talk to his friends (whom he has now told) but he keeps texting and saying things to me- begging. I know I sound like a callous bitch but it is really hard
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How to stop your ex p doing the pick me dance
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1moreRep · 30/11/2014 17:47
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