Have been trying to work out what to do, regarding separation following (relatively minor) DV incident involving the police a few weeks ago which was the last straw for me.. Now 'D'H just got fired from his senior well-paid job today.
Whole sorry state of affairs on previous thread:
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I'm trying to gather my thoughts on what this means.
- He's going to be home ALL THE TIME
- He's asking for loads of assurances "As long as WE'RE ok, then it'll be fine" which I can't give him...
- I have a bomb to drop, better to do it now, can't leave it until he has started or is about to start a new job?
- But I will be the b*tch who kicked the poor, poor man when he was down.
- He'll be the poor saintly house husband and über dad, and I'll be the absent heartless career woman. He'll monopolise the children and become de-facto primary carer.
I think it's all going to kick off, and I'm not ready and I'm frightened.
Help.
Please.