Hi there,
This is my first post to Mumsnet as I am fairly new to the site. Firstly I cannot believe I am even writing this however, here goes...
My partner and I recently moved in together after a long time of commitment issues which I believe was mainly down to the control and input he still allows the mother of his children to have.
This is crazy but she is so sly and manipulative that it actually is bothering me and he seems blind to it. She has tried to become bosom buddies with me and I am friendly to keep the peace. However, she is constantly trying to drop him in it with me and still makes requests of him as though they are together. Clearly this is jealousy and a case of not wanting anyone else to have him but as he has children with her and I do not, this does get to me and she is feeding my insecurity in a big way. She put me on the spot and invited me in for a coffee one day only to have a topless photo of him flicking up on a slideshow every few seconds.... Erm lol you have been split two years you bunny boiler? (Obviously I did not say this or actually anything )
HELP me to somehow get her to back off please? Or to stop her getting to me in the very least as we are the love of each others life but sometimes it makes me want to walk away.
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MotherofA · 27/11/2014 13:44
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