Hope this NC works. Apologies for typos, using a phone.
Basically I've been single for a year. Previously in a ~4 year relationship- living together but not married and no kids. I ended it when I found out about infidelity earlier in the relationship. He moved away quickly and is now engaged, etc. I really don't feel much about it, so it's not about being hung up on the last relationship. I have been very happy (happier than ever!) since the split.
I have been dating on and off since. I haven't wanted anything serious (probably sensible). I've now met a guy who I think I quite like. I don't know if they're related, but for the last month or so I've been feeling very low. It's a shock because I felt so happy before, and I've fallen into quite a dark place, really. I have had trouble with depression before. Anyway, as it happens I've been seeing this chap for a few months. I'm thinking that the stress of a new relationship (albeit not serious) is contributing, and as it's so early, perhaps I should call it off (we're not exclusive or anything) because I obviously can't cope?
I have had bloods done recently although heard nothing back so assume they were fine. I wanted to rule out a physical cause. Once I've called to confirm that they were all good, I was thinking of doing as I said.
A tiny part of me wonders, though, if maybe I still will feel awful. Then I've thrown away a good thing for nothing. For sure there are lots of other things going in my life, but they were there before.
Am I being rash and too risk-averse, or very sensible?
I hope this all makes sense. The low feelings I've had make it quite tricky for me to think rationally or very coherently.
Thanks.
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stresseddating · 25/11/2014 01:34
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