We have been married over 15 yrs, had a talk last year as I felt flat and wasn't happy anymore; now he feels the same and so we have decided to split but what do I need to do next? we have three children, youngest is still in primary so want to do christmas first before anything happens. I can't afford to buy out half the house so do I have to sell? If we sell I will still need a fairly big house to accommodate three children....
We have a fair amount of equity, maybe 300K but half that won't buy anything so I will need a mortgage, presuming his contributions for the children would count as income. I work 4 days a week but only term time and not a huge amount. Looking for a helpful website to lead me through this. He earns massively more than I do, as I gave up my career to have the children.
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toomanyprojects · 22/11/2014 22:48
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