I don't know what to do but I'm crying again tonight.
We have 2 young children, the elder of whom is 3 and our relationship is ruined. I think it's my fault. The children are currently ill all the time and the older child has a chronic condition that can be hard to manage although it's not of itself very serious.
We are both older parents who work quite long hours in fairly stressful jobs. To say we are not natural parents is an understatement.
When dc1 was born I was diagnosed with mild PND but in fact I've always been very anxious.
The series of normal, stressful things that happen with young children have left us shouting at each other with me swearing and him really shouting at me. He is not a violent man but I push him with hysteria I think. I have no one in my family to talk to (mother dead but she would have been great). I just hate it so much. We seem to have lost all respect for each other.
I love my children but I don't know what to do and I end every day crying. Thank you for reading this.
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Echocave · 22/11/2014 19:41
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