I asked him to leave a month ago. It has all been fairly amicable, he just made me miserable for years and I don't love him any more. He has been less than helpful with regards to seeing the children. My 4yo doesn't even ask where he is, or seem to care that he doesn't live here any more.
He is being increasingly petty, and I think trying to 'punish' me by telling me he is busy instead of having the children for the day/night.
I have been on a few dates with someone I've been friends with for a long time, he obviously hasn't met the children other than seeing them in a friend situation before my marriage ended. I'm so worried about what my ex husband's reaction will be when he finds out. I know he will get nasty and accuse me of having an affair (I absolutely was not, not my style no matter how unhappy I was)
Any helpful advice? I'm finding it all very stressful.
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Nirvisna · 21/11/2014 11:45
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