I've posted many times about my troubled relationship with my mother.
I've been given some great advice here and based on this, have done a lot of thinking and a bit of reading about this.
I am currently reading Toxic Families by Susan Forward and have found it useful. She suggests confronting your parents about the past, in the hope you can change how you feel/react. This is something I am considering.
However, I have discussed this with several of my friends and it would appear that the majority have fairly difficult relationships with our mothers. Collectively, we have struggled to think of many people who do have "good" or overwhelming positive relationships with our mothers.
It made me wonder if I'm maybe being a bit over sensitive and perhaps it is just the way of the world and that many/most (?) people have difficulties with their parents?
I'm not sure how you could quantify this really. I just wondered if this thought had ever occurred to anyone else?
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How common is it to have a difficult relationship with your mother?
mermaid101 · 18/11/2014 20:29
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