Lived with Dp for a year, 10 y old and 6 yr old (mine) live with us and 12 yr old lived with dad. All was well and the two youngest loved him. Eldest was always a bit funny but we put this down to age and being alienated by his dad. Eldest recently left his dad but refuses point blank to come live with us, hates dp for no reason. Calls him all sorts to me and won't see reason when I try to discuss it with him. We've suggested days out, spending time together and taking things slowly, no go... Thing is, both youngest are now catchin on an in turn starting to be funny an nasty to dp, it's awful to see. We've sat down and spoke about it and they just shrug it off, say they hate him and all sorts. I feel like we've taken a massive step back and for no reason at all.
Eldest has told me he wants to live with me but "not if he's there"
Makes me so sad that I'm looking at no alternative than to leave DP. He's lovely and makes me happy. He makes such an effort with the kids. It's just not fair.
Have I really no hope of turning things round?
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sandra159 · 17/11/2014 20:23
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