Me and DH are at crisis point I think and I just don't know what to do anymore.
We had a big argument on Saturday night, I disagreed with him on something and we argued. despite the fact I disagreed I still followed through with the decision he had made (think DC punishment), he then proceeded to ignore me all Saturday evening sleeping in the spare room and ignored me Sunday morning when we had another argument about him ignoring me and he still gave me the silent treatment until last night when we had a massive row about it all, him saying the silent treatment was because I disagreed and me saying I should be able to disagree, by all accounts it was because I kept on and didn't just accept his decision.
In the row last night a lot of things came up and this seems to be the thing with us, I keep my mouth shut when I don't agree with him to avoid silent treatment, then it gets to boiling point and it blows up and it's about everything.
We seemed to get somewhere last night with me making it clear I cannot deal with silent treatment anymore and he needs to deal with disagreements like an adult, I also need to accept to won't always change his mind on things.
But today it feels surreal I'm very emotional and it feels like there's so much to deal with so much he doesn't like about me and things he does that I don't like.
We've been together 13yrs married for 8 have 3 DC DD12 DD4 and DS2. I don't just want to end my marriage because I do love him a lot but I feel so powerless to fix things.
There's so much more as well money arguments him wanting to save so much me saying we can't it's too much and that's me being negative.
Sorry for mammoth post if you've got this far I would live to hear what others think and have any ideas on how to resolve some of these things.
Tia
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