Ladies of mumsnet - I need your advice!
I've been talking to a guy for the last 6 or so months after we met online. We meet up around once a month for a date, and we chat on text every day. We planned a weekend away in a couple of weeks (first time sleeping together)
He's younger than me - his early twenties to my mid thirties, but I am recently out of a 12 year relationship, so we're taking it slow.
But he's just dropped a huge bombshell. He says he has spent the last week texting a guy he just met online who is offering to give him oral sex, and he is curious about it. The more we chatted, the more I realised that he's really considering this proposition.
It's not even the fact that there is someone else he has been talking to, we agreed to be casual. Rather it's the fact it's another guy. I just can't get my head around it. He keeps insisting he is 100% straight, but curious which is why he wants to do it.
I'm totally confused about what to think, do and say to him......
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New relationship - but he may be gay?
missannab77 · 16/11/2014 00:28
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