Hi guys,
This is my first post here, so I hope you lovely ladies can help!
I've been with my boyfriend for a year now (official for 7 months). I'm 28 and he's 32.
He's never been a particularly great texter but I will always hear from him a few times a day.
I saw him at the weekend as usual and everything was great. Tuesday he was a bit off. Not responding or doing so in short answers which often happens if he goes into a man mood.
Yesterday he went completely AWOL. I didn't hear from him all morning (no response to my last message from the previous night) so I messaged him a little good afternoon message at about 1pm which he read straight away and ignored. By the time 11pm came and my bed time I still hadn't had a response so I messaged him again saying 'Just got in from a meal out with the girls (this was true) and how did his awards ceremony go for work?'
I went to sleep then and woke up again this morning to no message, despite me sending it at 11pm and his last online time being 2am, so he had seen it.
He was at work all day yesterday, then heading straight on to an awards ceremony, but he was showing as online a fair few times. I think it must take 2 seconds to shoot a quick reply and I've never gone a day without hearing from him so I thought this was a little off.
So anyway today he messages me saying how was the meal? Now I have no idea whether to just answer and act like everything is fine or is this showing him that it's fine to ignore me? I don't want to sound like a nag.
Should I mention it?
I wouldn't mind so much if he wasn't 'online' for minutes on end, through out the day and night.
What would you do in this situation?
Thanks :)
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Boyfriend went AWOL
VIX1307 · 13/11/2014 13:23
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