Following on from previous threads about what the problem was why my BF didn't want sex with me, he admitted this weekend he is having trouble getting it up and it's nothing to do with me!!! He says he loves me and wants to have sex!
He says he doesn't know why but it's just not happening and it's a mental block that's causing it... Maybe the fact we didn't have sex during my pregnancy (his choice) and now he feels pressure to preform!
We spoke at length about this and I mentioned the total lack of any type of intimacy I.e kissing/cuddles etc and he says he knows he has been lazy and promises to make a effort!
We have agreed to take sex off the agenda for now and just concentrate on the cuddles etc in bed and hopefully that will progress into sex with no pressure!
He says that he finds me attractive and this morning when I dressed and bent over in my kickers he got horny (totally wrong time 2 kids were in bedroom with us) and this morning we had a cuddle in bed and he did get a erection that he pointed out to me!
So am I right in thinking this is good? The fact he can actually get a erection and hopefully if we just take it slow and take away the pressure it will just progress on its own?
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