My partner of 2 years who I have a child with has suddenly started to refuse sex! Its actually got to the point where I dont know how to approach the situation. I've tried confronting him about it and he shrugs it off. Sometimes even makes me feel like im pestering him. I've tried lightly suggesting sex throughout the day, flirting etc. I've walked round the house in sexy underwear no end of times and still nothing! Im at my witsend I dont know whether its me or him ??? We gone from at least twice a day to not even once a month! I just dont feel good enough for him sometimes
What have you said and what has he said? You're much better talking about it than wearing sexy underwear and pressuring him
If, for example, he's developed some sort of ED, pressure and sexy undies will just make him feel even more embarrassed /inadequate. Has anything else in your relationship changed, or just sex? How long has it been a problem? Was it sudden, or has it slowly dwindled?
I've talked to him about it. He says he's tired or he would rather watch the football and drink a few beers with his head in his phone constantly on Facebook! He doesn't have erection problems either. Also this has been happening for the past 6 months id say. Nothing has changed in our relationship really except the sex and lack of communication xx
I want it though the relationship still feels young to me! I was with my last partner over 6 years and never had this problem! I know every relationship is different but this is all new to me! He says he happy and content! Maybe he's too comfortable? Lol. And he uses Facebook alot to promote his business but sometimes through the night when I've woke up I have caught him on it :/ I don't know what to think !he's never gave me any reason not to trust him :/ xx