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I have several employees, one of whom suffers with a lack of confidence in some work based circumstances. I like her very much and have been working with her to try and build her confidence so I don't lose her. She has confided that her exDH was abusive. She's now with a new DP and I am on nodding terms with and she is very happy with him.
Last night, out of the blue, I received a horrible email from the DP, accusing me of all sorts of nefarious behaviour, of manipulating and bullying her at work, none of which are remotely true. I left it a few hours, texted her and asked her if she was aware of the email (she wasn't). The DP has since emailed an apology of sorts.
Aside from the inappropriateness of the approach, is this just an over protective partner or something more sinister? I am a little concerned for her and although we do have professional boundaries to observe, we're a small company and I am concerned about her.
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Employee's DP seems rather odd?
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queenofthepirates · 08/11/2014 19:55
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