I think H has NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder). I prefer the term cunt myself. Except cunts are nice, with warmth and depth and actually have a good purpose in the world.
Many moons ago I posted on here about what a sleazy, cheating husband he is. I didn't leave. I wasn't ready, we had only just got married, moved to a new city 200 miles away, the children were small and the whole situation was compromising my mental health.
4 years on I am stronger and showing him the door. He still doesn't get it. "Aren't you over that yet?" and 'We both need to work at this' "We both need trust" "I need affection, and you aren't giving me any" and other such classics in the collection.
He admitted to sleeping with a couple of prostitutes, chasing women at work, god only knows what else. We all know that they only admit to a fraction of the crime anyway.
He's told me he 'curbed his narcissism for 7 years'. We've been together 14. Married for 4. He met someone on his stag go. he stayed in touch. Apparently she is STILL in touch. He had a 'thing' with a stranger in the street. oh I could go on. He has told me he is 'scared of getting old, of not being a player'. He is a 50 yo father of 4.
Do you get the picture?
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Bitter, twisted and angry - leaving a H with NPD
suspiciousandsad · 08/11/2014 19:01
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