One of my closest friends has told me she's been having an affair with a man in her office for the last month. She has a boyfriend of three years, they live together. The man has a girlfriend who is pregnant.
She told me she's going to break up with her boyfriend tonight, which I'm pleased about as he's been making her unhappy for the last year or so. She also says the other man is going to tell his girlfriend, whether that actually happens or not remains to be seen.
I suppose what I'm asking is advice on how to talk to her now- I'm surprised she's done this as she never seemed the type to have an affair and I can't just shut down my feelings about affairs.
I'm pleased she's leaving her boyfriend, but not about the way she's gone about it. Even if it is love, as she (and supposedly he) say I can't see it working out- and office romance that began with infidelity and lies on both sides.
How do I relate to her now?
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PotOfYoghurt · 07/11/2014 15:31
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