I had the a 4 year relationship with somebody who emotionally, financially and sexually abused me. . It was a gradual onset and interspersed with great times great sex ect ect. It had me doubting my own judgement and even when I realised he was horrible it took ages to dis entangle myself. Anyway it's been over for a year now, I'm fine for the most part but sometimes still feel a bit angry that he got away with the things he did, that I was so stupid and allowed it to go on.
Anyway there is no contact. I haven't contacted him since that day, he did txt in June when I was on holiday but I ignored it. I have seen on FB however that he now has a new relationship, some of our family members are still on eachothers FB, I am not. Everybody seems to think he is such a lovely guy, they have no idea of what a total bastard he was to me, how manipulative and controlling he was. Anyways I noticed his new gf, who incidentally has commented that they have been involved I some way with eachother for a year, this means he txt me when he knew her.
Also he appears to be looking and acting like the perfect BF. Has sent her a bouquet and she has commented about his lovely early morning wake up calls, I assume she means voicemails as he lives away and works nights. I used to get one of those every morning too. Everyone has commented what a lovely guy he is underneath this and I just want to scream NO he really isn't
I know I should detatch but I feel like revenge sometimes. I really suffered mentally with him and he's come up trumps again. Not sure what I'm looking for in posting just need to vent
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EA ex and his new relationship
Pumpkindumplin · 07/11/2014 10:12
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