I have a friend who has had the misfortune to marry a despicable man. I believe he is EA, drinks too much and is on occasion violent (punching walls kind of stuff).
She has already started divorce proceedings but, for complex reasons, they still have to live together for a while. Would it be useful if I got her the "Why does he do that?" book to help her in dealing with him or would it not be worth it given that the relationship is dead already? I.e. is written mainly to help people see that they need to get out of a relationship or would it also help for instance when dealing with an ex, or, in this case STBX?
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Lundy's book: is it useful for someone already out of the relationship?
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NameMeaName · 06/11/2014 16:26
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