When the dc were little I started to do everything regarding childcare and housework whilst dh went to work. At the time this seemed pretty fair and came naturally. However, now the dc are 8 and 10 and I still do EVERYTHING. All housework and all childcare. The difference is that now I work too. For 3 years I have worked 4 days a week but nothing has changed for him. I am completely frazzled and feel totally unappreciated . On top of this dh barely shows me any affection except for when he wants sex. Recently I have started to think about being with another man who appreciates me, which would horrify dh. However, I can see I am partly to blame for letting him get away with it for so long. How can I get him to see that he needs to help more and show me more love without sounding like a nagging wife. I need him to stop treating me like a housekeeper with benefits.
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