Hi, my children are with their father this weekend. I have had quite a traumatic few years and have always been able to count my good friends on the fingers of one hand.
I have been feeling increasingly lonely since the drama of my marriage ending has quietened down friends have been less forthcoming and many I have only seen once in a year, I do have a couple of close friends but when I have child free time I tend to prefer to spend it without other people's children...
I did a shout out earlier in the week to two friends who are very old friends who I don't see that often, I said I am free all weekend and asked if they wanted to catch up, one took two days to reply saying no and the other took three days to reply but replied yes.
The thing is, in the meantime I decided that rather than wait and feel sorry for myself I would take myself away for the weekend and treat myself to some nice times, somewhere else on my own, I thought if I'm home alone all weekend scrabbling around sadly for stuff to do it could be depressing whereas if I'm away somewhere new I can really fill the time up.
I was on the verge of booking my accommodation when the second friend replied, apologising for the lateness of the reply but do I want to go for drinks this sat
.
So now I'm thinking shall I just apologise and say that I have decided to go away instead or accept and go out with her and do stuff around the house, catch up with chores, fitness etc?
Bit of a back story, I have experienced some ill health over the years and due to my condition I have often agreed to social events then cancelled (not always at the last minute) due to the up and down nature of my health.
I know that this friend in particular got fed up with me chopping and changing my mind.
I bumped into her the other day, she was out with other friends and I was with my kids, it was quite an awkward exchange.
Please help me to decide what to do, weekend away alone seeing new things and chilling out or a weekend home alone with a night out with a very old friend trying to salvage something that's barely there now?
Thanks so much
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alongcamespiders · 06/11/2014 12:38
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