Im in my early 40's, divorced (2 years) and have been seeing a guy for over 2 years now. The problem is, he never has any money for us to do anything. he stays at my house a few nights a week and eats everything i have in my fridge, showers at mine and drives my car everywhere. I thought this was ok at first but now its driving me mad, he has a good job but says he doesn't earn much money and that his outgoings are more than mine ( i have 3 kids) His mum does everything for him such as washing and ironing, cleaning his house, even feeding his son. He hasn't got any money whilst with me but as soon as his son appears and wants something he gives it to him. I have a part time job which pays rubbish and the benefits i get go towards the running of the house.....i've tried dropping hints to him about how my water bill has gone up and so on but he just ignores it! i've stopped going out with my friends coz he doesnt lilke it. He wants to know what im doing and where i am constantly. He says he loves me more than anything and even tho i consider myself to be bright and outgoing something in me has changed and i am beginning to lose all faith in him as a guy expecting me to do everything for him. he seemed to manage just fine when he was married and his wife didnt work so what has changed? i know your going to tell me im a pushover but i am a bit lost with what to do other then end it.
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