I'll try to be brief! I split up from boyfriend 4 years ago after living together for 3 years (I had left husband for him) we also had a relationship 22 years ago when I was 16 for 3 years. We have been in touch occasionally and met a few times over the last few years. It's never been a problem for me to carry on after these times, I just get back to my life without him. It's always been more him initiating than me, and I guess I have enjoyed the attention and knowledge that he still has feelings for me. However! Two weeks ago we went out for a drink after a number of texts and ended up in bed. He said all sorts of things about loving me and I said all sorts of things about how we should be together. Oh dear. Since then he's not bothered at all and I've been almost obsessing over him. I've texted and texted, being nice and casual then apologetic, then angry and downright crazy! He's ignoring most, just responding occasionally flatly saying he's done, he now has closure. I know I have to stop the texting. I Can't believe that 2 weeks ago he wasn't particularly in my thoughts, yet now I am thinking about him literally every second of the day. Its affecting my mood so much I'm snappy at work and with my boys, and tearful when I'm alone. I feel like a huge relationship has ended and it was only one night. I hardly recognise myself it's like I'm going mad. I'm handling it so badly if anyone has any advice I'd be very grateful.
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